I hear you. I would move now if you could because hosting WordPress is actually a huge source of complication from wordpress. Also the theme. I know I am moving a bit slow on getting you a video but look at X THEME.

There are always going to be code based complications with ANY website. Whether it’s self hosted WP or hosted sites like SquareSpace. At the end of the day custom coding is ALWAYS needed to get things where you want them. X is my go to theme